Lobby Game List Issue (can't see own game)

Hello All!
First, I want to thank the XMage team for putting together a wonderful program. I'm hoping to work out some issues with game making I've encountered so I can enjoy it properly.
Two related(I think) issues regarding creating and joining games.
[1] I'm trying to set up a game between two machines on the same network so I can play against a family member. I understand the hosting required (CompA runs server and client, connects to localhost. CompB connects to CompA's local IP address), and I can get both Comps into the local server. They see eachother in the user list, and can see what the other types in the lobby chat box. However, when either starts a match, the other doesn't see the game in the game list. I'm at a loss on how to troubleshoot to fix, so if there are suggestions I can try or info required to help solve it, let me know so I can provide. Same issue when connecting to a public server - CompA can't see games made by CompB and vice versa.
[2]Related to [1], my understanding is for two window testing on one comp, you can connect two clients to the local host. In the past this worked fine. However now when I do this, I run into the same issue in [1].
First, I want to thank the XMage team for putting together a wonderful program. I'm hoping to work out some issues with game making I've encountered so I can enjoy it properly.
Two related(I think) issues regarding creating and joining games.
[1] I'm trying to set up a game between two machines on the same network so I can play against a family member. I understand the hosting required (CompA runs server and client, connects to localhost. CompB connects to CompA's local IP address), and I can get both Comps into the local server. They see eachother in the user list, and can see what the other types in the lobby chat box. However, when either starts a match, the other doesn't see the game in the game list. I'm at a loss on how to troubleshoot to fix, so if there are suggestions I can try or info required to help solve it, let me know so I can provide. Same issue when connecting to a public server - CompA can't see games made by CompB and vice versa.
[2]Related to [1], my understanding is for two window testing on one comp, you can connect two clients to the local host. In the past this worked fine. However now when I do this, I run into the same issue in [1].