Trouble hosting a server

I just recently stumbled across MAGE and I am amazed! Wow! Such hard work and dedication must have gone into this project to create something of such high quality. The only down side is that I haven't been able to play with my friends on a server.
I am running Windows 7 and have enabled port forwarding, and messed around with my server config file, but my server still does not accept clients outside the LAN. I am a techy person and have never had problems setting up a server before, however when people try to connect to me they are greeted with the message:
Unable to connect to server - Tensor
Where Tensor is the name of my computer, which seems especially odd to me because that means it must be communicating with the server in some manner.
I have similar problems when trying to connect to servers my friends have setup. I've tried tons of ip addresses in the serverAdress field in the config; both internal and external ip addresses, loopback address, leaving the field empty. etc. I've tried both the dev version .9 and release version .87.
Oddly enough, I am able to connect to slightmagic's server, this makes me wonder...
I looked through the logs and saw that the message I received is generated by an UnknownHostException, i'm not sure what this implies but I will keep looking. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
I am running Windows 7 and have enabled port forwarding, and messed around with my server config file, but my server still does not accept clients outside the LAN. I am a techy person and have never had problems setting up a server before, however when people try to connect to me they are greeted with the message:
Unable to connect to server - Tensor
Where Tensor is the name of my computer, which seems especially odd to me because that means it must be communicating with the server in some manner.
I have similar problems when trying to connect to servers my friends have setup. I've tried tons of ip addresses in the serverAdress field in the config; both internal and external ip addresses, loopback address, leaving the field empty. etc. I've tried both the dev version .9 and release version .87.
Oddly enough, I am able to connect to slightmagic's server, this makes me wonder...
I looked through the logs and saw that the message I received is generated by an UnknownHostException, i'm not sure what this implies but I will keep looking. Any help would be greatly appreciated.